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Comment on “Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch Changes!” by Enigmatik

Enigmatik — Tue, 06 May 2008 02:07:11 +0000

What a fantastic blog entry!

More power to you. Maintain your current mindset and I see nothing but a bright future for you.

Keep it up and keep smiling.

Comment on 15 Years of Marriage. What is he thinking today? by Pippy

Pippy — Fri, 07 Mar 2008 02:30:00 +0000

Hi Whit, it’s Pippy/Due
So sorry your divorce is so painful! I know what you mean when you say your husband is/was your best freind. Mine is too. We just got back form couples counseling where we talked more about the actual divorce…it’s strange, to talk about it, but I really want it now. He has been a good husband in the scheme of things. He took my “new life” pretty hard this past year, but is now more accepting. I’ve had two brief realtionships with L. women and both had problems with the fact that I was married, and that I talked to my husband about things. They just didn’t “get it.”
I’m thinking that one day you will be able to “know what he’s thinking” that he’s going through a lot himself right now, and will, in time, be more the person who was your husband, best friend, and father to your sons. This is all a process, can’t skip over any of it…it all takes time…hang in. you are doing the right thing. Best!

Comment on Thanks Pippy/Due by Whit

Whit — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:11:46 +0000

Not just the romance issues, but I leave out the abuse. Weight has always been a struggle so when I came out to myself I felt free and started leading a healthy lifestyle and have lost 95 pounds. She constantly calls me fat. She hates the way I dress and tries to recreate me. She mocks my Southern accents and sometimes she just has to go home because my children are too much for her. I keep my place clean, but it is never spotless enough for her. I live in fear of what to say or do, but am finally making a break and making new friends, but when I post on another board she becomes jealous.

J’taime- Whit

Comment on Thanks Pippy/Due by Whit

Whit — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 17:17:29 +0000

We met a year ago. I fell hard and she did also, but she could not leave the past beind and I did not expect her to. She was in a 30 year relationship and lost he partner to cancer. She comes over on the weekends that the boys are gone. I have forgotten how to have fun. She does not want to go out. Only to dinner. I am very romantic. In December we took a trip to New Orleans on the train. Got a sleeper car. You know I think a little wine and romance on they way down. I ordered a two hour massage after we got to the room. She is just not a sexual person. I am very romantic and sensual, but I do have feelings for her. I am afriand to explore and see if those could be found in another beceuse she would give me the shirt off her back, but she does not reach out to be romantically. She does not want me to kiss her or hold her. I feel myself disappearing. That fun and flirty side going away. She constantly tells me it is over then comes back. I want to have fun. I want to be loved, but how do I know the next person will not be fake?
J’taime—–Whit

Comment on Thanks Pippy/Due by Pippy

Pippy — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 07:33:00 +0000

From Pippy/Due

Sure, I’m glad you posted! That’s why Uno and I started this blog. You are going through so much! So you’re not livivng with her, or seeing her at all? tell me I don’t know the whole story, but would like to listen and lend a shoulder if you like.
Best! Pippy/Due
PS when you post on here maybe don’t post with the name you’ve been using? that should help, pick an Italian number…say Tre? just in case you ex finds out about this.
Best! Due

Comment on The Gold Standard in Girlfreinds:LATEBLOOMERS! by saintpaulgrrl

saintpaulgrrl — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 12:53:49 +0000

And some of us make it clear from the get-go that no one is getting left behind or abandoned because of a new relationship in the equation. It’s an “adding to” rather than a “detracting from.” There are no delusions that it’s going to come down to an either/or situation.

Comment on About Us by saintpaulgrrl

saintpaulgrrl — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 12:48:10 +0000

As a 52-year-old woman who has been something other than the conventional all of her adult (married) life, I have found your journal with much interest and look forward to stopping in from time to time to read your observations and musings.

Comment on Snow Day! by saintpaulgrrl

saintpaulgrrl — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 12:44:32 +0000

You’ve spoken very wise words: But even if after my divorce my girl is not interested in me,
there’s still someone who is “there for me” —-Me.
and that’s the greatest gift really…and the most hard won.

We would all do well to use these words as a guidepost, and I thank you for sharing them.

Good luck on your journey. May you dance in the moonlight whenever it shines brightly upon you!

Comment on About Us by ecompesone

ecompesone — Wed, 20 Feb 2008 13:20:15 +0000

I pass smudge resonably at first, tantalisingly hard, all the while contemplating with her dress with my muffled hand. Is that all you’ve done.

Comment on About Us by AJ

AJ — Tue, 22 Jan 2008 04:04:01 +0000

Saw what a great time you had in NYC..and liked what I read about this site.
I love the written word….and this site would be wonderful to visit.
Thanks for sharing it with us at AJ.